Wednesday, May 27, 2009

The Past 11mths & 1 Week ....

Sorry for disappearing for so long ..... Been busy with work and trying to spend quality time with wife n son......

Anyway..., at 11mth & 1week, zayne weighs in at 11.3KG, has 6 teeth with 1 more on its way out... CHUBBY as ever, always seems to be smiling and laughing, .. recently learned to be really cheeky and playful, and would "hop" over to me and pull my leg hair then escape away laughing... he is standing and "cruising".. and he knows how to slide down from the bed or sofa now .. and he has called Daddy... first ..:P wife is still a little "sore" over that ... not a word of mummy or mama yet..

well.. think Singapore's Ministry of Home affairs should be paying me for what I am going to say now... for all my friends.... Those of you who want and ready to have kids but apprehensive over the cost of raising a kid and planning . DON'T think too much!!! really, if you are ready to have kids.. then JUST DO IT!..

Your fear/anxiety of whether you have the means or time to have a kid is STOPPING you from having a kid, not helping you to plan at all. Its a total waste of all that adrenaline and motivation... I would dare say, if you really want to worry, then have that kid first!!.... then let all the fear and anxiety be the motivation to drive you to work harder to create a better work/live for your kid and your family!!. Seriously, there is nothing more FULFILLING than to see your little grow!!..

To my friends who are expecting or will be due soon... CONGRATs.. and be prepared for the most fulfilling "ride" to come.... Welcome to parenthood... ( never thought I would ever get to say this !!.. ha ha ha).. k time to sleep.. :P



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